When I was younger I my mom would buy fall clothes in August for me.
I would hang them in my closet and stare at them for days, waiting/praying for
the weather to cool off. After day 2 I couldn’t wait any longer. It was as if
nothing else was in my closet and the only thing I could wear was that new cute
leather jacket. Yep, that’s all I have so I must wear it. In case you didn’t
know or you live in an igloo, it’s really hot in Oklahoma in August. Like 115
degrees hot. And if you don’t know anything about leather well it keeps the
heat in. So in other words, due to my impatience I was a sweaty mess after a
solid 2 minutes in the jacket.
One of my biggest pet peeves is people not enjoying the
season they are in (I can be guilty of this too, so no condemnation here).
Literally and figuratively. Some people long for fall in the middle of summer.
They try and speed up the process by wearing their flannels and UGGs but guess
what? It’s HOT pretty much until October so those people go into a heat stroke.
When Nathan and I started dating the first question everyone asked me was, “When are you getting
married!” Okkk… seriously people?? I just started dating him and now you are
going to freak him out with your questions!
Literally at our wedding, the next question came – “When are you having babies!?” Well obviously
not right this second because we are STILL AT OUR WEDDING. *And honestly this
is really no one’s business, so people stop asking everyone who is of childbearing age*
I wanted to respond to these nosy questions with, “well we
actually don’t believe in marriage” or “I hate children.” Obviously neither are
true, but that would’ve definitely gotten some people off my back.
Sometimes we want to rush every season of life. You say, “I’ve
been dating for 2 whole weeks, can we just be married already???” “Great we are
married! I need a baby NOW!!” “Now I have this baby and I REALLY want her to
grow up!”
PAUSE. Exhibit A:
When my little sister Allie was born, we wanted her to talk
immediately. I was only 8 and I was bored with a baby that just slept all day.
So she started talking early. BIG mistake. Babies are loud and when you’re 8
you need your beauty rest. Please see prior blogs – I blame Allie for the lack
of beauty growing up due to no beauty rest.
If everything isn’t aligning just right and we want to move out
of the season we’re in so badly, maybe we should start enjoying it instead of
hating every second.
When we rush one
season, the next can seem so much longer. We start spring in January and now we
want summer in March. It doesn’t work like that (okay it most definitely could
in Oklahoma). Listen, I’m not saying God is purposely going to hold you back
from the things you want. Galatians 6:9 tells us not to lose heart in doing
good, for in DUE SEASON we shall reap! DUE SEASON. Not our FAVORITE season that
we want right this instant, but in due season. So while you’re waiting why not
enjoy it?
Whether you are:
Single- You have
FREEDOM!! Hang out with all of your friends, Eat what you want, go to the gym
when you want, go to sleep when you want – YOU DO YOU!
Dating - You get
to go home and you don’t have to talk to anyone for a day or two if you really
don’t want to! You dress up and go on fun dates every week! You also don’t have
to share a bank account… buy those shoes while you can! **Nathan would let me buy all the shoes if I
wanted to**
Married with No Kids-
Go on a fun vacation, just the two of you! You can leave the house for a movie
at 8pm and not get a sitter! **I do hate leaving our puppy Howie at home
though, so if you want to be a puppy sitter, you may apply** Stay up late and watch
a whole Netflix series. Sleep in! More like sleep in general.
Mom/Dad- You get
to dress your kids really cute and teach them fun things. You get to cuddle a
sweet baby and care for and invest in someone else – I’m obviously lacking on
this one since I’m not there yet...
While you are wallowing in the season you are in, others are
having fun and enjoying themselves and probably getting tan from laying out
because they know the difference between summer and fall! Time goes so much
slower when you count the seconds. My mom always told me “dress for the season,
not the weather.” Obviously, sometimes we have to bend the rules with crazy
Oklahoma weather, but I still stand by it. Dress for YOUR season. Just because
you wear fall clothes doesn’t mean it’s fall. It doesn’t speed the process up. You
still have to go through summer to get there. Prepare and pray for your new season, but delight
in your current one.
